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Celiac Counsellor Sherry Scheideman Gets Married!
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens“I got married last month! And, right before the wedding, wouldn’t you know it, I had a celiac attack.”
Celiac Counsellor Sherry Scheideman Responds to Heart Wrenching Letter from a Mom
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens“My two children were recently diagnosed with celiac disease quite unexpectedly. We are struggling to cope.”
Celiac Counsellor Sherry Scheideman Talks Romance
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensStarting up a new romance is nerve-wracking – our insecurities (Do they like me?) and neediness (Am I attractive enough?) flare up, and we try hard to make a good impression.
Celiac Counsellor Sherry Scheideman Speaks About Self-Care
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensHaving celiac disease puts us under extra strain as we deal with severe dietary restrictions and the physical, emotional, and social challenges that go along with that. That’s why it’s essential that we celiacs take self-care seriously.
Celiac Counsellor Sherry Scheideman Takes A Day Off From Celiac Disease
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensDo you ever get bored with having celiac disease, and wish you could have a day off from it?
The Celiac Counsellor Talks About Mourning and Celiac Disease
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensSix months ago, my mom died after a lengthy illness. In mourning her since then, I have noticed familiar feelings I associate with celiac disease.
Celiac Counsellor Corner – How Meditation Helps Me Deal with Celiac Disease
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensDid you suffer on the Easter weekend, visiting relatives in gluten-filled environments? I did … but it definitely would have been harder without meditation. Let me explain! Maybe meditation can help you, too.
Celiac Counsellor Corner – How to Be Mindful When Things Are Tough
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensWhen life is challenging – financial woes, illness such as celiac disease, unemployment, divorce, or whatever – it seems hard to live in the present moment.
Let Celiac Disease Motivate You to Be Your Own Ideal Marriage Partner
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensIf you had the ideal marriage partner, how would they support you emotionally? What would it feel like to be married to them?
What Are Your Celiac New Year’s Resolutions?
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensLiving with celiac disease is a challenge. It helps to take the time to identify our most painful difficulties and to come up with ways of dealing with them. Now is the perfect time to go through this process, and make Celiac New Year’s Resolutions!
Anxiety, Depression, and the Gut
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensWhen gut systems are compromised, the body’s happiness system is damaged, too.
What to Do When Your Celiac Child Isn’t Invited
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensTHE SITUATION: My celiac child isn’t invited to a party because the party-throwers aren’t willing to make it safe for my child.
MY BELIEF: They should invite my child to the party.
Five Steps to Respecting Ourselves and Others Even When We Feel Like Crap
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensCeliac disease makes us feel like crap in many ways, and when we feel like crap, it’s easy to behave badly.
You Want to Say YES, but You Need to Say NO
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensAs celiacs, many of our social and emotional issues arise from wanting to say YES, but needing to say NO. We need to learn how to feel comfortable saying NO. Psychologists call this “Drawing Boundaries.” There are lots of long and complicated books about it.
Are Celiac Disease, Autoimmmune Disorders & Trauma Related?
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensTrauma comes in many forms: it can be ongoing abuse that we experienced as a child, it can be a single horrible incident like an accident or a disaster, it can be a surgery, and so on. There’s even a thing called trans-generational trauma, in which we kind of ‘inherit’ the unresolved issues of our ancestors.
Celiacs: Want to travel but worry about finding safe food?
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensAs a celiac, I find it frightening to go on trips. Will I be able to find safe food? Will I have to go hungry? Will I get ‘glutened’ and have to deal with the illness away from the comfort and privacy of home?
Getting ‘Glutened’ is Going to Happen
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensYears ago, when I was first diagnosed with celiac disease and was making a lot of mistakes with the gluten-free diet, I used to hide my digestive distress from everyone at work. The work scene, I thought, required me to be perfect. Being sick wasn’t perfect!
What to Do When Being Gluten Free Feels Unfair
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensOne thing that comes up for me over and over as a celiac is the feeling that I shouldn’t have to spend so much time and energy finding something safe to eat. Everyone else just reaches out, grabs something to eat, and carries on with their fast-paced lifestyle. Why can’t I do the same? It’s not fair. I have to search and search while everyone else gets ahead of me and I’m left behind, hungry and cranky and feeling like the victim of an injustice.
Having a Child with Celiac Disease Can Be Difficult for Parents
/2 Comments/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensAs parents, we don’t want our children to have a disease … we feel our children’s pain, we want everything to be perfect for them, we fear for their wellbeing. Our celiac kids can sense when their parents are upset about their disease, and they feel bad about it.
How to Find Gratitude in Difficult Celiac Situations
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensIt’s easy to see what not to like about being a celiac – I don’t like packing all my own food in case the available food is cross-contaminated, I don’t like eating a can of cold soup while everyone else is lining up for a buffet that I paid for too, I don’t like going hungry while everyone else is eating pizza, I don’t like saying no to food that people offer me, I don’t like worrying that something delicious I’m eating at a restaurant is possibly poisoning me with each bite, I don’t like facing weeks of debilitating digestive issues after a mistake, and so on.
Self-Care for Celiacs: It’s not Selfish – It’s Necessary
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens- Imagine yourself as a wheel, rolling along through life. Now that you’re in Celiac Territory, you will encounter all kinds of hazards that can give you a flat!
Simple Tricks to Help Us Cope with Celiac Disease
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- It’s natural to experience anger, resentment, sadness, desperation, frustration, fear and exasperation as we adjust to to the gluten-free diet.
Celiac Disease – Crash Course in Adapting to Change
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- Betty always spends two weeks at the home of her aging parents in the summer. Now that Betty has celiac disease, she suffers anxiety, hunger, sadness, and resentment on these holidays because her parents can’t/won’t make their home safe for her.
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – The Gift of Limitations
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- When your parents or in-laws are gluten-clueless and unwilling/unable to learn, staying with them may no longer be an option. How can you deal with this limitation that celiac disease has introduced into your life?
How to Be Assertive About Your GF Dietary Needs
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- Celiacs often face upsetting social situations around food. We fear that being assertive about our needs will seem rude, and we don’t want to offend anyone or wreck anyone’s fun.
Has Celiac Disease Made You a Better Person?
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- Celiac disease can help us become less prejudiced against people and situations in the world around us.
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – Sherry Scheideman, RCC
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- Want to get off the cycle of pain? The physical pain of celiac disease makes us angry, desperate, frustrated, and afraid. This emotional pain makes the physical pain worse. We’re already dealing with cramps or mouth sores or whatever it is, and then we add the extra suffering of anger or sadness or fear on top of it — putting us in a cycle of increasing pain. Here’s how to get off that cycle of increasing pain.
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – Sherry Scheideman, RCC
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- Celiac Pain: Celiac disease presents each of us with our own unique set of pains to deal with – pain such as sores in the mouth, abdominal cramps, bloating, headaches, nausea, and so on. Normally, we wish this pain would go away. We tense up against it, wishing it weren’t there. We get frustrated, angry, and resentful that the pain is in our life. We feel like a victim, like it’s not fair, like our life is being ruined. We fear that the pain is a sign that something even worse is happening with our health. We hate the pain!
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – Sherry Scheideman, RCC
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- COMMENT: I’ve always been a very anxious person, and now that I’ve been diagnosed with celiac disease, I’m wondering if the celiac disease has something to do with it.
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – Sherry Scheideman, RCC
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- ISSUE: My travel companions pressure me to make quick decisions and take risks when I need a snack from a convenience store. I feel hurt and disrespected.
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – Sherry Scheideman, RCC
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- To the celiac who sometimes can’t stand herself because she gets so irritable when her pain and other symptoms worsen and she finds that she is not the positive person she used to be
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – Sherry Scheideman RCC
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- My 9 yr old was diagnosed end of June, and all our meals became gluten free, and snacks etc. separate toasters, butter and the like. I felt bad when the few times we ate out, my boy had few choices from the menu, so I decided to join him so he wasn’t alone, and have been completely gluten free since Sept. 1st. I wouldn’t dare think of eating wheat period. I made a commitment to support him, and I will never look back. He keeps things inside but has transitioned well, checking labels and avoiding things with gluten, and avoiding foods even when he wasn’t sure. But I know he wishes he wasn’t celiac … Marianne
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen Bayens
- My daughter’s biopsy results come back in a couple of weeks to confirm Celiac, but I’m already stressed as to how to feed her, especially the worry of cross contamination. I’m also worried about how she will handle it. I’m hoping going gluten free will help, and not overwhelm her more than she already is.
Celiac Counsellor’s Corner – A New Addition to The Celiac Scene
/in Gluten-Free News /by Ellen BayensGluten-Free News
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